“What if I fall?”
“Oh but my darling, what if you fly?”
The stakes are high.
‘Falling’ would mean that I have failed; Failed to pass my NCTJ diploma in journalism and failed to re-enter the world of work as a journalist. It will mean a huge waste of money, and thousands of pounds down the pan. It will mean letting down the people I love the most. The disappointed eyes of my children upon me is almost more than I could bare.
But…
‘Flying’ would mean everything.
Flying would mean regaining my independence and my individuality. It will mean pride and it will mean confidence.
(It will also mean that I managed to pass a 100 word per minute shorthand exam, gulp.)
In September I am going back to school for an entire year, to learn how to be a journalist. My passion for writing is going to morph into a career and I am quite literally tingling with anticipation to get started.
I’ve discovered this compulsion to write since I started my blog, a passion for word splurging. Quite simply, an addiction to divulging the nitty gritty backstage at the Mum-game.
My blog has led me to write a monthly column for a local magazine for 8 months now, a goal I never thought possible to reach. When I started this blog back in 2015 after the birth of our second daughter, I never dreamt that my sleep deprived, delirious words would open up this new career path. It just used to make me smirk as I documented The Witching Hour and Soft Play Hell…
I always thought I would stay at home forever.
-But that’s not an option now; Not now I know what I want to be when I grow up.
I have been on ‘mat leave ‘for 7 years. 7 years!! I’ve loved being at home with our girls (most of the time, blog might contradict that…) never having to hesitate when there has been a music show at school or a ‘look at their work’ afternoon. Each time the phone has rung because they are sick, or banged their head I have been at the school office within 5 minutes. Without exception. I’m grateful and thankful that I have been there every step. I haven’t missed a beat.
I am well aware that ‘flying’ will mean I will be giving that all up. I’ll be in the working Muma club. A working Muma who earns money I might add. There is no doubt that my wardrobe our family will benefit massively from an additional wage packet. The satisfaction of buying my husband a Christmas present not with his own money will be a maje milestone!
But, the guilt fairy peers over my shoulder on a daily basis at the moment:
“You’re leaving them y’know… They’ll be latch key kids drinking cider & smoking slims… What a juggle the holidays will be now, you selfish bitch…”
But.
I’m ready to give this career thing a go.
I think. (Self doubt will always linger won’t it?!)
I want to show my children that if you have a dream, you need to go for it. Embrace your ambition, no matter when it comes looking for you. Be brave, roll up your sleeves and get stuck in.
But I am bricking it. Of course I am. I’d be lying if I was to give you the impression of taking this next step in my stride. It has been 11 years since I last stepped foot in a classroom. And then it was when I had nothing else to juggle, it was just text books and alcohol. (Hmm, Perhaps it won’t be all that different after all…!)
For the first time in years I will be accountable to someone over 3 ft.
What if my new classmates are all 10 years younger than me?
What if I don’t understand a word I’m being taught?
What if I hate it?
And so I come back to this:
What if I fall?
But my Darling, what if you fly.
Congratulations! I’m so pleased for you, your blog is brilliant and you definitely deserve a career in journalism! We all need to start somewhere and I have decided I love writing too so have also applied to local magazines recently. I’m a way behind you but am also secretly jealous! Have a great time getting drunk with your school friends, I mean revising for exams 😋 I’m sure you will do great.
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That’s amazing, good for you! There are so many paths into journalism, I don’t think you are behind me at all. Check us out: Lois Lane eat ya heart out! Xxx
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Oh yes I love this 😄xx
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Congratulations! That’s amazing and I’m so happy for you! You have wings of steel lovely lady. You ain’t falling anywhere! Yay to you! 🎉 xx
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Dawn you legend thank you so much for these words of encouragement! I’m not sure they are steel…!! Hehe. Sending love to you xxx
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